Scheduling Sex Doesn't Put Woman in the Mood
Dear Abby | March 23rd, 2026 | Letter 3 of 3
DEAR ABBY: Has anyone ever asked women on the receiving end of men's use of Viagra or other such medications how they feel about having to plan or schedule their so-called lovemaking? I feel it would make it just plain old sex rather than an emotional, loving act. To me, it would be better to have no sex at all than to have to plan for it. Also, how satisfying is it really to women? -- PHYLLIS IN INDIANA.
DEAR PHYLLIS: As I am sure you know, there is more to making love than popping a pill. The act and the desire for it should be mutual rather than a performance. Making love with someone a person cares about and is attracted to can be satisfying, but I think the answer to your question depends upon which participant you ask.
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