Alcoholic Ex Refuses To Accept It's Over
Dear Abby | March 23rd, 2026 | Letter 1 of 3
DEAR ABBY: A former boyfriend, Ray, is an alcoholic. He has been through rehab twice, but it didn't do any good. He won't stop. He keeps saying we'll work it out. I don't understand why Ray can't get it through his head that I no longer want to be with him. I gave him two chances. Nobody else wants to help him either, including his family. Ray can be controlling. He still contacts me and tells me what I need to do, just like when we were together. I don't need that kind of person in my life. I hope and pray God will send me the right person one day. Any advice you can offer? -- BREAKING AWAY IN ALABAMA.
DEAR BREAKING AWAY: Block Ray's number, and do not respond to any more messages from him. If he has a key to your place, change the locks. The next time Ray contacts you (hopefully sober), tell him there is nothing more to work out. You no longer want any contact with him, and if his stalking doesn't stop, you will report him to the authorities and get a restraining order. (Then, if it becomes necessary, do it.)
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