Hovering Ex Hopes for a Second Chance
Dear Abby | January 7th, 2026 | Letter 2 of 2
DEAR ABBY: My ex-girlfriend just can't get a clue. She continues trying to get me back and even goes so far as to stalk me. I blocked her phone number, but it has become exhausting. How do I tell her I don't love her anymore and really no longer even like her? I can't stand her, her family or her friends. She gaslit me for years. Our entire relationship was built on a lie. I'm so much happier without her in my life, but she just won't go away. Any advice on how to deal with this crazy person would be great. -- SO OVER HER IN FLORIDA.
DEAR SO OVER HER: Continue to avoid your ex, and if you see her, do not acknowledge her. If she approaches you, tell her you are done and to leave you alone. Do not respond to her calls, emails or texts, and if she mails you anything, write return to sender on the package or envelope. Tell your friends that she is stalking you and her behavior is creepy, and then continue dating and resume your social life. If she acts out or damages your property, report her to the authorities. The most effective way to get rid of her is to resume the life you had before you met her and don't look back.
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