Disdain for Father Yields Little but Pain
Dear Abby | January 6th, 2026 | Letter 2 of 3
DEAR ABBY: My father left our family when I was in sixth grade. Because he had cheated on our mom numerous times, he was removed from his ministry and went into education. I tried to resolve my feelings with him, but he would never admit his faults. When I finally asked him to tell me the truth, he refused. I am now in my 60s and still angry at him. I have a wonderful wife and two beautiful kids he has never met. Before he dies, I'd like to tell him how I feel about him and ask him one more time to tell the truth. Is this worth the effort? He is 92, so I don't have much time. -- ANGRY STILL IN PENNSYLVANIA.
DEAR ANGRY: Your efforts will be better spent if you meet with your father and tell him you forgive him for his transgressions. Do this not for him but for yourself, to free you from the burden of anger you have carried for all these years -- and will continue to carry after his demise.
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