Woman Makes Her Faith Part of Friend Group's Meals
Dear Abby | January 5th, 2026 | Letter 3 of 3
DEAR ABBY: About six months ago, I began arranging a group dinner for the wives of my husband's poker buddies. It started out great. However, a new wife to the group has instigated praying in the restaurant, along with holding hands as we pray. This is not my style nor is it for a few others. We feel held hostage to her request and aren't sure how to put a stop to this display. I'm very private about the spiritual side of my life. Another member of the group is agnostic. Please advise me on a tactful way to address this dear woman. -- UNCOMFORTABLE IN THE WEST.
DEAR UNCOMFORTABLE: I'm glad to help. Address this privately. Explain to the woman that not everyone in the group is comfortable displaying their religiosity in public, and some may prefer to do their worshiping privately. If necessary, remind her that silent prayer is just as effective as praying aloud.
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