Grandparent Doesn't Want To Be a Parent Again
Dear Abby | December 31st, 2025 | Letter 2 of 3
DEAR ABBY: My stepson passed away five years ago. Over the next two years, his widow moved several different guys in. She has neglected the two kids she had from a previous relationship. She was rarely home when the kids got home from school, and the house was a mess. The department of children's services finally removed them from her custody. The older two went to live with their father; we got the youngest daughter. I love her dearly, but I don't want to be raising a child at this time in my life! I also don't want to leave my husband. Please help. -- BURDENED IN TENNESSEE.
DEAR BURDENED: Many grandparents have found themselves in your situation, raising children they never expected to. I empathize with your situation. We can't always choose our destiny. One thing is certain -- that child needs you. It's important that she feels secure and loved, particularly since her mother wasn't capable of providing it. Grandparents who provide this crucial support deserve acclamation and a special place in heaven. It might interest you to know that AARP (aarp.org) is an excellent resource for grandparents who are raising grandchildren. Your state also has a Grandparents As Parents program. Go online and see if there is a branch near you. I hope they are helpful.
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