Wife Threatens Divorce Over Man's Podcast
Dear Abby | December 1st, 2025 | Letter 2 of 2
DEAR ABBY: I've hosted a live podcast for years. It's my creative outlet, my therapy. Recently, my wife gave me an ultimatum. I am not allowed to host the podcast anymore, or she'll divorce me. She says it's for us, not her. Her reason is mostly because I preach atheism as well as discuss many other topics. She's a Christian. I was a Christian when we met and married, but I am no longer. I want to respect her faith, but I feel this is too much for her to ask. My show is a piece of what I want to share and document with the world. It's only a few hours' commitment a week, and I don't do much else as far as recreation or hobbies. I am employed and responsible, and I fulfill all my duties as a husband. I'm terrified of losing either the show or my marriage. Is this a fair thing for my wife to demand? I have chosen to stop hosting the show for now, and I'm unhappy. I'd like my wife's blessing so I can continue. Is there anything you would recommend? -- HOST IN EXILE.
DEAR HOST: I don't know how far away in exile you are, but if you live within the borders of the United States, there is a certain amount of freedom of speech here. Living according to your wife's dictate leaves you frustrated and unhappy. You have the right to express yourself, and you have an audience who appreciates it. If she chooses to divorce you over this, you may find it's a relief. Call her bluff. If you do, you may discover you are happier following your own path rather than hers.
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