Sparks Fly Once More When Ex Reenters the Picture
Dear Abby | November 30th, 2025 | Letter 1 of 3
DEAR ABBY: My son is 27. He has had some problems recently that were so serious I reached out to his father. His father and I were teenagers when we had him, so the last time we spoke was 18 years ago. Our relationship was really toxic, which is why we split when we were young. (We both had other children.) Since we've begun talking again, we have shared that the relationships we're in now aren't good. Mine is verbally and emotionally abusive. (He used to be physically abusive until two years ago.) Abby, all my feelings for my ex have come back, and he says he feels the same. We're different people now. We haven't taken it any further than talking and texting. I'm so confused. I don't know if I should end the relationship I'm in and give it another go with my ex, or leave it alone. -- HOPELESS ROMANTIC IN TEXAS.
DEAR HOPELESS ROMANTIC: You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by ending a relationship that's emotionally and verbally abusive. If your ex is sincere about what he has been telling you, he may want to end his unhappy relationship as well. IF you decide to move forward with what you're considering, I strongly urge you to get to know him first. Couples counseling can help you accomplish it, considering the baggage you are both carrying from the first time around.
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