Sister Flips Out Over Intended Name for Unborn Nephew
Dear Abby | October 23rd, 2025 | Letter 1 of 2
DEAR ABBY: I am pregnant with the first-born grandson on both sides. My husband and I plan to use my husband's middle name for our son's first name and my father's middle name for his middle name. My father is the III but has no sons, so we thought this would be a way to honor him and represent my side of the family. My sister is the first person we shared our son's name with. The following day, she called me to express her displeasure, because she always planned to use our father's middle name as a first name for a son. I knew this, but I didn't think using it as a middle name would be an issue. Additionally, she's younger than I am, unmarried and childless. She was so upset with me that I had to end the phone call because it escalated to yelling. During the call, she suggested I forgo using the name but honor our father by changing the baby's middle name to our father's first name (which my husband and I don't think flows well) or use my maiden name for my son's middle name. Must I change my son's intended name because my sister wants to be the first to use our father's middle name for a potential future son? -- PICKING A NAME IN THE EAST.
DEAR PICKING: How your sister got into the middle of what you and your husband decide about your baby's name is beyond me. Of course you don't have to alter your plans to suit your sister. Stop being a people-pleaser, particularly where your offspring is concerned. Name your baby boy what you think is best, and do not look back.
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