Dear Abby for October 20, 2025
Dear Abby | October 20th, 2025 | Letter 2 of 2
DEAR ABBY: Six months ago, my grandson, Levi, 23, told his father (Alex) and me that he wants no contact with us. Levi and his dad had an argument when Alex asked for help paying the utilities, since Levi and his girlfriend live rent-free in Alex's house. Alex has tried to reach out to Levi through texting, but his texts are ignored. I tried sending texts and letters but received no response either. My son is not perfect, but he has always been a loving and devoted father. Levi means the world to him, and this estrangement is causing Alex physical and mental health problems. I have always doted on my grandson and been warm and kind to his girlfriend, so we don't understand why he turned on me, too. Should I keep trying to reach out, or accept that Levi does not want me in his life? Please advise. -- DISTRESSED GRANDMOTHER.
DEAR GRANDMOTHER: Levi may be a young adult, but he's acting like a spoiled child. His father's request that Levi contribute to the cost of the utilities in the home where he had been living rent-free wasn't unreasonable. I can only wonder where he and his girlfriend are now living and presumably getting a better deal. Stop trying to reach out only to be rejected. When Levi grows up a little, or needs something else from you and his father, he will show up in your lives again. Right now, because Alex isn't doing well, concentrate on your son's health.
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